I have heard people say that they heard God talk to them. I would like all of you to ask yourself  What would God say to you if you heard him talking to you?  Would he tell you how proud of you he is or would he tell you what an awful human being you have become? Would he say WOW! look at what you did with all the things I blessed you with or DUDE! what did you do with what I gave you? These are the questions that we really need to stop and ask ourselves. There are so many people that have become just absolutely miserable and happy to stay that way. Happy to steal the joy from the people around them.  It's that old saying "Misery loves company." They have chosen to be miserable because of lifes circumstances.  They feel like they can never get a break or their time to shine.  So they just give up and figure that I'll always be miserable so why not make everyone else miserable around me. That's a very sad way to live life.
We can not let our problems dictate our choices in life.  Most people look a life as a series of problems and say that once we get through this problem we will be happy.  Then of course there is always another problem and the thought of finding our one ounce of joy is gone.  There are just somethings we can not change or fix and there will be always another mountain to climb.  The destination is not the most important part it's the journey.  We will never arrive at a point in our lives where everything is perfect. We will always have one more problem to struggle with. Stop letting "Misery love company", whether you are the misery or the company. Do you want to be disappointed if God actually talks to you?