I wrote a post once labeled Questions once. Someone came with a reply that went something like this:

"I've been in this situation many times before. But what I learned after the experience is that it is really tiring to question every bad things that's been happening. Honestly, my only advise for you is just to stop with the questions. Things happens for a good reason, you may not see it now but one day you'll appreciate the hardships you've been through." At the time I honestly could say that she didn't know me or me situation, but today I can say "Thank You."

It was some of the best advice that she could have given me at the time.

Questions to God usually arise when things are at their worst in your life. And as I admitted in an earlier post I asked( and yes, sometimes still do) God where are you at. What I have realized is that the presence of hardship does not mean that God is absent. God is still very much there. He isn't hiding. He wants us to feel his presence and his love, but what happens is we assume he isn't there and we become blind to him. But if we take God at his word we will see him in everything and everywhere. Then his presence makes all of those problems seem SMALL!